I was taken aback by the question as I sat next to him in the dark. I didn't want to say something that would scare him about death but also not something that would diminish how precious life is so I said "it's better to be alive because you get to be with your family." He thought about it for a minute and then said "I have one wish that I really want to come true....I want to live forever."
I didn't know how to respond. None of us will live forever my love, I wanted to say but instead I kissed his head and said "no matter where you are, mommy will always be with you, forever and ever." He turned around and looked at me and said, "even in heaven?"
"Yes, even in heaven."